Scooby and Willow... thanks so much for your replies

This whole not knowing business is driving me insane. I spend what time I should be spending with my husband, on the internet, looking up things that make me go to bed in tears. I just want an answer. I want someone to say to me "Lisa, congratulations on the tiny little bubba we can see on the ultrasound" or "Lisa, sorry, you have miscarried" or "Lisa, sorry but this is a molar pregnancy"... the only thing I know for definite is that there is no definite answer!!!
I am worried that if it is a molar pregnancy or a miscarriage, that leaving the D&C for so long isn't such a good thing.
Considering that this is my 5th pregnancy... I feel like I know nothing about pregnancy right now... I am feeling so lost and confused