thread: 3 weeks ago my baby died

  1. #37
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    Jul 2007
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    I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little Lola. I am so sorry that she couldn't stay with you. My heart was breaking watching her slideshow, I can't imagine what you, as her mother, are going through.

    RIP angel girl.

  2. #38
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    oh darlin. my heart aches with you. so sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl. what a beautiful story with a sad ending. you are very strong and brave to write such heartfelt words. you will always remember lola, as will we from crying as we read your words. such a beautiful way to capture the love you, your family and friends have for lola in those amazing pictures.

    RIP lola xx
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  3. #39
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    Sep 2007
    Blue Mountains, NSW
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    I have been thinking about contacting SANDS, I have a book put out by them of stories of Loss, but I am a bit scared as well at the moment. I dont feel like I could cope with other mothers grief as well as my own at the moment and I picture myself just crying the whole time. I think in time I will go down that road tho.

    Thankyou everyone for your kind words about my Lola
    hi
    So sorry you have had to go through this and to lose your precious daughter Lola.
    She is absolutely beautiful.
    I to have lost my daughter at 41 weeks, my story is in this section also under: Milana Matilda Rose
    I have quote what you have siad about talking to anyone else who has gone through this, but if you change your mind, just pm me.

  4. #40
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    Oct 2007
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    The tears are streaming down my face and dropping off my chin. I am truely sorry of your loss of the beautiful Lola x
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  5. #41
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    Aug 2008
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    I am so sorry for your and your family's loss. The photos are beautiful.

  6. #42
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    I'm so devestated for you having read your blog and seen your pictures. I'm a bit of a tough one but I have tears streaming down my face.

    No words can express how much sympathy I'm sending your way so please accept this less than eloquent offering.

    Hugs, xoxo
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  7. #43
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    Aug 2008
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    wow

    I'm so sorry about your sweet Lola
    The pictures are beautiful, I'm in awe that you we able keep yourself together... I was bawling my eyes out the whole slideshow.. I'm so sorry.. best wishes to you and your family
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  8. #44
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    Sep 2008
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    oh hun..., i have so many tears rolling down my face thinking about you and your family. I know that you will find so much support from the girls here on BB. I am in awe of your amazing words of love for precious baby girl.

    Sending you all of our thoughts a love and we are all here if you need to chat.

    RIP precious girl xxx

  9. #45

    Oct 2005
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    Oh My - Lola is so incredibly beautiful - congratulations on birthing such an amazing daughter.

    I am so sorry my darling Mama that you had to say hello and goodbye on the same day... The pain is so searing - but I also read the joy in your story. Thankyou for having the courage and strength to share Lola with us.

    I cried loudly and uncontrollably when I read your story.

    Sending you my love and support. I feel sure you will find much loving support here on Belly Belly. May healing come...

    Fly safely and freely Lola - you touched my heart...

  10. #46

    Apr 2007
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    your story of lola and her birth is very moving , there are tears on my keyboard as i type . the photos are beautiful and your DH - bren . looks a very loving dad.

    my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    I will light a candle for Lola xx
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  11. #47
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    Kaylee - Thank you for being so brave to share your story with us. - Never before have i felt so helpless and inspired at the same time. - The strength of you, your DH Bren and your extended family is amazing and your beautiful daughter Lola was truly blessed to have been born into such a family...

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and may your precious angel baby RIP

  12. #48
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    Feb 2008
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    Kaylee, thank you for sharing your story, it is incredibly moving to read and your pictures are just so beautiful.

    I am so sad to know that little Lola was born sleeping. I hope that you find comfort in telling your story, in introducing your little girl to so many people and in knowing that so many people have been moved by her. Your family look so beautiful together and I bet you are really glad to have photos of you all together.

  13. #49
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    Feb 2009
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    Thankyou so much for sharing your story. Written with so much love !

    I sit here completely distraught for you and wishing things were so different.
    I am so very sorry for your loss.

    You have given precious little Lola a beautiful tribute - You are amazing !

    I am at a loss - i dont know what the right words are. Sorry.

    I hope that the hill you climb while healing isnt too steep !
    Please take care of yourself and your family.

    You have found a fabulous group of Ladies (and Men) here. They will be able to give you lots of advice, strength and love along the way.



    Remember we are always here for you !

    xxxxxoooo

  14. #50
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    Aug 2007
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    I'm sitting here lost for words. There is so much in life we take for granted, and so much we just shouldn't.

    I'm so deeply sorry for what you are going through, my heart aches for you and your family.

    What an amazing tribute to beautiful Lola - you have done her proud.

    RIP Little Lola

  15. #51
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    Jun 2009
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    i am so sorry about your wee girl

  16. #52
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    Jun 2009
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I read your blog and had tears running down my face. She was a beautiful baby girl.

  17. #53
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    Jun 2008
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    oh beautiful lady How very very sad. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

  18. #54
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    I am sooo very sorry for your loss. I cannot even begin to imagine how much your heart hurts. I bawled my eyes out reading your story and seeing your precious beautiful baby girl on the slide show. She is absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing your story.

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