Baby is gone

[~Kim~]

Lestypus, my sad day got so much sadder when I read your post. I totally understand about the loose end syndrome. My little one is staying put so I am booked for my D&C tomorrow morning.
I was thinking about you at 3.30am this morning, wondering how you were getting along.
I'm so so sorry.

I ate a whole club peppermint block yesterday.....have to say that was all I ate but it didn't really help.

[sneakysparkle]

Lesty I'm so sorry darl
Wish I could say something to make you feel better

[Isadora]

So sorry lestypuss

[Enchanted]

Lesty- I am so sorry to hear that

Take all the time in the world that you need to heal and eat all the choccie you need.

[Evie76]

Thank you everyone - especially you Kim, I hope that you are alright too.

Does anyone know how much you are supposed to bleed? It's like a REALLY, REALLY heavy AF, is that OK?

[mollycat]

Hi Lesty - sorry bubbles had to go....
when I m/c someone on here (and i'm so sorry but i forget who) made some terrific cyber cakes. Really made it easier knowing there was someone out there who was going through the same thing. Go your hardest on the chocolate and whatever else is handy. Give yourself time to adjust and grieve, because Bubbles was definately a part of your family, doesn't matter how long they were around, they were really wanted.

And yes, it is like heavy AF.

[Evie76]

Thanks mollycat.

Wouldn't want to be haemorraghing and not know it - it's very similar to the after effects of having Daniel.

Yes, Bubbles was already a part of our family. His/her dad was already having little conversations. I think my DH is quite devastated. He was "shocked" when I told him I was pg again. He even had a massive stress attack - how are we going to afford day care etc etc......... but he had gotten used to the fact that we were having another one. Always telling Daniel that he had to be a model "big brother" and that throwing himself to the floor and having a tanty wasn't exactly the sort of behaviour he was hoping for from the apple of his eye.

He wants to start trying again soon.......... he really liked the idea of a second baby once he got over the initial stuff.

[Evie76]

How are you going Krystie?? I've read your post and feel for you.

It's nice just to hang around on this website, I reckon.

[trini246]

My heart goes out to you lestypuss..im sorry for your loss