Thank you everyone for you help, She had bad cramping yesterday at 4am and was bleeding heavely, the doc could see the placenta at our local hospital and they removed it there, she had the D&C last night and her husband told me today that she had to have a blood transfusion because she had lost so much. Im really feeling for her.
The tree idea is a great one and i will definatly do that, would it be weird to give her a little plaque to go with it or would that hurt her to much