My mc was my first pregnancy too hun. I know it is a big shock when you find something like this out and being the very first time i found it really scary not knowing why or whether it would happen again.

I know to me the hospital staff seemed a little uncaring as well when I went in, I was told the same thing 'its very common to have a bleed this early on in the pregnancy' no bloods, no examination even, the only time they touched me was to give me my anti-d needle. And the next day when I had to go back for a scan the nurse turned around and told me 'not to worry we'll see your beautiful little bub and everything will be allright'....just about broke my heart coz after that night I knew there was no hope.

But like everyone has said above I think there just isn't much they can tell you that early on. And not much they can do besides pain relief if you need it. Im really sorry you have to go through this dahl & hope that you know you have all the support in the world here on BB