Anastacia. I lost 3 angels when I was younger. I believe stress has EVERYTHING to do with it. The three I lost were when the dad didn't want them and was pressuring me to abort. I was going thru uni and working and dealing with pgcy and now x-bf's being AHoles and demanding I get rid of the bubs! I only ever carried to 8wks for those 3. I had to hide what was happening from my family as they didn't agree with who I was dating and I didn't need extra stress. When I met DH and we decided to TTC, it took 5 months and I had started to panic that the 3 un assisted non diagnosed m/c's could have damaged my uterus ( stupid me never even told my dr at the time. Just went a week after and complained of heavy and painful periods and had an U/s which came back all clear each time. I was in denial of what had happened for soooo long..... I just couldn't deal with it or cope at that time). But I fell and I knew from the moment I fell it was different. Dh was so excited and happy and babied me for a lot of that pgcy. I carried Kat to term and Jess and now I think this one is going to be the same. Even if Dh is a little reluctant about me being pg again heheh. I know he loves me and would never make me abort and that he will love and support me and the bub so I feel safe. Maybe I am off topic, but I do truely believe stress is BAD during the first trimester! It's not good during any time of pgcy, but you need to have a good outlook and support and hopefully your body will be able to carry to term. Goodluck hon. Sounds like u r pg so.........FINGERS CROSSED for u!
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