In January we lost our baby at just short of 10 weeks & I can totally understand your feelings. I kept thinking, my goodness this baby was only 2cm long why on earth am I so shattered by this, it could have been so much worse. I don't think it's about the length of time you knew, or the size of the baby or the gestation. It was still your little baby that you had hope & dreams for, that you loved with your entire being, even if you hadn't verbalised it. It's such a crushing horrible thing to have to deal with, it just hurts so much.
Do whatever you need to get through all this. Cry, go shopping, eat chocolate, whatever. Just know that the wonderful BB girls in this section will be here to give you hugs & love whenever you need it.
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