what's happened to you suxs and it is totally unfair. Life has let you down, given to the world and then taken it from you so quickly and cruelly. Its like waking up and you life being someone else's sick joke. There is nothing anyone can say or do that will help!
Just make sure you cling to you DH and support each other as best you can & I say that cause there will be days when you just can't be there for each other or one of you will say the wrong thing but that's ok as long as you always find you way back!
I am so sorry for your loss, you are not alone, ever!

Be kind to yourself and take it slow!