Firefly... 12 months on... (losing a twin)

[*Beema*]

Thankyou all for taking the time out to read and post

And for the birthday wishes, hopefully this gives me some closure as such on this chapter and tomorrow is a new day and another year older

xxoo

[Party-of-five]

[thepixie]

And for the birthday wishes, hopefully this gives me some closure as such on this chapter and tomorrow is a new day and another year older

In your case, I prefer to think of it as "another day more awesome"

[*Beema*]

Thankyou all so very much for being "here", such beautiful messages I really appreciate them all xxoo

In your case, I prefer to think of it as "another day more awesome"

LOVE this

[~StarBright~]

HI there.. a bit off topic but just wanted to share that today on Seaseme Street they are featuring Fire fly's and singing songs about them. A day late maybe, but still a bit special.

[*Beema*]

I manged to read your post SB while I was feeding Miss A and after Miss N finished watching MMaker I switched it over jsut in time to hear some of the songs about Fire Fly's, they were gorgeous thankyou

[mummydreamer]

thank you for sharing your story. not much i can say other than massive

[dory]

Beema - I am so sad that firefly couldn't stay... but Happy birthday to you I hope you got some peace from the day, and sending love to your girls. I am glad to see you starting to try to make your way forward.... firefly will never be far away, but it's so good that you're embracing today. Go gently.

[*Beema*]

Thankyou beautiful ladies

[~mamaspice~]

Oh Beema, big s hun.

Firefly helped give you the gift of Miss A.
And Miss A couldn't ask for a better guardian angel in this world than her twin, Firefly

It's been a massive bitter sweet 12 months for you

Happy birthday, and heres to a wonderful year ahead for you and your family

[~StarBright~]

Big giant to you Beema xxoo

Firefly is always going to be around, and A will always know it. What you are seeing is beautiful, heart breakingly beautiful!! You get to see the connection between your babies has not been lost

I have a good friend who does alot of healing regarding "surviving twins"... (apparently after doing a lot of research, she has found its alot more common than people ever know, not that that helps ) she helps people to re connect with their twin and hold that known connection. And she also helps them thank their twin, because often sadly, it is like how you lost Firefly, and for whatever reason, the loss of a twin often means the life of the other. If you ever want any more information please pm me and i will pass on her info, she is great at what she does xxoo)

You will all never forget Firefly... I will light my candle tonight and send some special kisses to the stars xxxooo

[Laranna]

Big hugs hun you're amazing and strong. Your girls are beautiful and fortunate to have you as their mum and little Firefly will always be watching over you all. Happy Birthday for tomorrow, may the day be special and filled with love and happiness