sniffy, I am sorry for your loss. I to blamed myself and thought back to all the things I had that may of made me m/c. The day before I started to m/c I did a big clean up of the house and worked my freckle off. Then the next day I started bleeding. I thought that this was the reason. I now beleive that there was nothing I or anyone else could of done to prevent or stop this happening. Everything happens for a reason even if you dont know why just yet!!!