BeiBei, I hope your procedure went as well as can be expected. I hope you are resting up at home, and allowing yourself the time to need to let your heart mend itself.
Bei Bei I hope everything has gone as well as it could have hun. I hope that you are home now taking it easy and resting. Take care and know that we are all here for you.
BeiBei,
I just saw this post...there is nothing much I can say to help you except, I am here anytime. Your and DH hearts must be breaking at this news and although this little angel was only here for such a short time..you will never be the same.
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Bec
Everything went well this morning, it was still dark outside when we were up heading for the Day surgery, but somehow it just felt so approperiate...we got home at about 1030am...I feel part of me has been taken away and I feel exhausted so I just slept and slept, and when I woke up I feel I need more sleep and that's what I did...
Thanks for thinking of me this monring and just want to let you know that I am feeling fine now, physically at least and I will now try to get some food down.
Work knows I am going to take next week off and my boss said don't rush back and take as much time as I need. So I will take one day at the time...
OMG, I'm so sorry. I have been offline for a few days. I cried when i read this, my heart goes out to you both.
I wish there was something i could say to comfort you.
:hugs:
Jo
BeiBei, I am so sorry for your loss and the pain that you're going through. I hope that you are able to surround yourself with the love and hugs that you need right now. Rest quietly and know that we're all thinking of you. Hugs and more hugs. In the days after my last loss, the hugs and kind words from the BB family meant so much to me, particularly as I was mostly alone. Whenever you need a hug, just say so. I'm glad you are able to take the week off from work.
Auntie M, thanks for your post...and I can't help noticing that you have also just lost your sweet baby in March.Aat 39 weeks, I can't even begin to imgine your pain and sense of loss...I hope you are coping ok and thanks for taking the time to lend your support, it means a lot...
Sometimes, you think the world is just so unfair! Take care hun...
sometimes, the world is unfair. that is when we can all use support from each other, and that compassion is what matters most. hugs to you for your dark days, and hope for the ones to come that aren't so dark. m
hi all. My name is anastasia i'm 30 years of age and my husband and i have been trying to get pregnant for 3 years and no luck. Was pregnant 2 times but unfortunatley we had 2 miscarriages and i got to see the 2nd pregnancy heartbeat and it was all good, the specialist said to me. the next day i had lots of blood clots. just don't understand why. both miscarriages lasted 6 weeks. i had a curette done and had the tissue tested and everything was goo. my husband and i had genetic and chromosomes blood test done and they are all good so there are no problem. but my quesdtion is why can't my husband and cannot carry the baby for more than 6 weeks? i have had endometriosis but now their all gone. plz i love to hear from you, if you have any advice thank you. take care.
Oh BW, thank you for checking on me sweetie. With all the things on your mind right now, I am really moved that you are so thoughtful...
I have been extremely busy at work because of a stuff-up, it just couldn't come at a 'better timing'...anyway, it is now almost been fixed. that's why I haven't had a chance to come in and visit at all...my mind was all over the place.
I have planned a two-week holiday overseas to visit my parents (home), so it should be quite relaxing and nice...that's what I need I guess...only 1 and half week to go...I planned so last minute that I couldn't believe I will be on a plane next Saturday...
This Monday was a very depressing day and I just feel am not engaging at work at all...had a cry when I told one close colleague and I was surprised it was still so upseting although I thought I was doing fine whole last week...but it seems now good days out numbered bad days...I guess that's a good sign...
How is your appointment with Dr. S? and how are you coping mentally? Do you feeling the weight start lifting? I am always here to listen you know that...
BeiBei, the good days do eventually get more and more, and the bad days easier to deal with.
In some ways, this experience has improved our marriage so much, and it was the one thing that tipped me over the edge with my depression that it's finally getting dealt with. I'm in such a positive frame of mind right now, and seeing so many good things come out of a bad experience that it's hard to feel too sad about things. My Caterpillar may have flown away, but they left an imprint on our lives that has lead to so many positives... and that makes it all easier to deal with. I've had such a huge weight lifted, that I'm feeling better (mentally at least) than I have in years and years.
I hope your trip away to see your parents is a time of rest, relaxation and healing. I've discovered that being busy at work is sometimes a good thing - it helps to have something to throw yourself into and take the focus off IVF for a while.
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Hugs and more hugs. In the days after my last loss, the hugs and kind words from the BB family meant so much to me, particularly as I was mostly alone. Whenever you need a hug, just say so. I'm glad you are able to take the week off from work.
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