HI hun,

I am so sorry for your loss. That would have been incredibly hard for you and I am sure each day is still a battle.

I just wanted to let you know that I am sure you did nothing wrong in your pregnancy to cause a miscarriage. UTI's can happen to lots of women are quite common in pregnancy. I had one at about 18weeks and am still carrying and my midwife said that it in no way would be a risk to the baby.

I think sometimes that some babies are just meant fo heaven for another purpose. It is so sad for their mummy and daddy and the people left behind who love them so much and so many questions are left unanswered but I know when I had my miscarriage last year I just had to trust that my little one was meant for heaven. That is the only thing that got me through.

I hope you can get through this and that you find all the support you need at bellybelly.