nae i dont think were designed to ever get over something like this, nor should you feel you have to, you need to take all the time YOU need to gather your thoughts and emotions.

my bestie lost her DS during birth 8 weeks prior to my DD been born, ive never felt as low as i did the day he died, i held him, touched his face, smelt his smell, memories i will always treasure.
as for his funeral it was the most emotional thing i have been too (crying writting this) but of so beautiful, the celebrant talked of mums pregnancy, dreams they had for their little boy, she read a book 'guess how much i love you' played some songs close to hearts. at the end they released balloons.

they had his hand and foots castings done, lock of hair cut, heaps of photos that they display with pride and love.

hope this helps and your in my thoughts