I am back in here trying to make some sense of what is happening. I have just suffered my 3rd miscarriage and while I try to stay strong I must admit this time has really knocked me around. Every time I think this is going to be it, just for it to end and we are left with the prospect of trying again. It is really starting to wear me down. I have had lots of tests and all I keep hearing is that it is just really bad luck. I am starting to believe it will never happen, or maybe it's just not meant to be. Life at the moment is a struggle and I am finding it hard to find any meaning to anything! What is making it worse is that I am surrounded everyday by children due to my job and it's starting to be extremely hard to bear. I would really like to hear from women who may have been through similar experiences.
Your wish for me is returned to you 10 fold. There are days when you think you are coping and days when the world is crashing down around you. I think we all have to find our own way through and hope that one day ours dreams will be realised.
My thoughts are with you.
xx laluna
I havent been in your position exactly... however, i had my first M/C 2 weeks ago. It was heart breaking and i am truly sorry you are going through it for a 3rd time! And to have no answer's as to why must be even worse..
I dont know whatelse to say except, i am sorry and i am thinking of you xo
I am so sorry for your 3 losses laluna , life is just not fair sometimes. I can't imagine suffering three m/c, I have had one late one and I couldn't imagine going through it again (late or early). But I am trying, and will keep on trying until I have a baby in my arms to take home to love and spoil.
You are are a very strong woman to keep going after your first and then second m/s, that takes guts and determination, not to mention a lot of love in your heart.
I wish you so much happiness in the future, you are so deserving of your own little bundle of joy, I pray and wish it will happen for you hun. Please have faith, and be strong. I pray for your broken heart to be healed again.
Love
Beata xxxx
Sweetie, I am so sorry to hear this. I know exactly how you feel. I had 2 m/cs and a chem pregnancy before finally having DD and I also struggled a lot. I thought we would never have a child of our own and had started researching adoption and trying to come to terms with never having the family I had always wanted.
3 months later I was pg with DD. I won't lie to you - pregnancy is not easy after multiple m/c and I was convinced I would m/c again, but I didn't! I also had a lot of tests done and was told there was nothing wrong and it was just bad luck, but I had so much trouble believing this.
Honey, please please please believe me that IT CAN HAPPEN! I never thought it would and now I have my beautiful DD who amazes me every time I look at her. I remember how hard it was to think I would ever get to the other side and I remember how much I hated being told to try again as it was just bad luck, but it turns out that it was just that.
I am always here if you need to talk. I know it used to help me a lot to come across people who had been in the same situation and then gone on to have the baby they dreamed of and I hope I can now help you like so many helped me when I was going through this.
Oh sweetheart i am so sorry for your loss. I have 'only' had one m/c and that knocked me so badly. I cant imagine what you are going through or how you find the energy for anything! Sending you all my strength and i am praying that it is your turn to hold a baby soon!
awww sweets I am so so sorry for your loss. Like you I have been through multiple m/c - currently experiencing my 4th and have had a mulitude of tests to be told that they can't find anything wrong "next time will be your time". I am currently at the point where i don't know where to turn and what to do. I am experiencing such a mixed bag of emotions like yourself. Big hugs to you and i hope that one day soon you get to realise your dream and become a wonderful proud mum to a precious bundle of joy. xx kirst
I can't believe it!
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. I wish I had words to take your pain away.
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