i lost my son at 25wks on 30th of sept

[jo76]

hi...
i know that devastation first hand of the doc not being able to find a heartbeat as i have experienced this twice now.
Allow yourself to grieve and feel angry, sad etc, anything you need to and try and surround yourself with supportive people who will take care of you, even in silence! Its hearbreaking to go through a delivery, mine were long but one small positive is that you got to meet your baby and see a beautiful head of hair. i would not take back meeting my angels for anything and i feel blessed to have had the chance to hold them after their passing as many do not have the same opportunities. Although those memories are still raw, i do treasure them and hope in time you can do the same...
lean on the bb girls, its a wonderful support site!
take care
x jo

[feeb]

I am so sorry to read of your loss. I lost a baby at 8 weeks when they couldnt find a heart beat.

I hope you have family and friends for support, huge hugs and I hope your fiancee is back with you soon.

[dd0207]

Mamaglo I am so very sorry for your loss. I too lost a baby at 21 weeks and it's so heatbreaking. Your feelings are natural and even though we never stop thinking about our angels, in time the pain eases little by little. I hope you have some good friends or family you can rely on while your fiance is away but we are all here for you in the meantime. Sending you alot of strength and big hugs