Its all good!
my honey is happy to try early next year (say feb/march) when i was hoping to anyway - we just want to get the all clear from the obgyn to say its ok to try.
now its just so much easier! i can relax and have a lovely xmas and new years knowing that we will be trying again soon!
baby dust to all, i am so happy!!
thankyou for your kind thoughts ladies - i guess i just wanted some answers while i was sitting at home still getting over the mc and he was at work - kinda hard to talk, but when he got home we did.

big hugs to you all