Hi Tutmae, thankyou for sharing your story of your little angel Lilah Grace. She sounds absolutely beautiful.

I can understand what you mean when you said it feels like it happened to someone else, and you can talk about it easily. I also feel like that, and it is unexpected things (songs that were on the radio at that time, hearing birthdates of kids at playgroup that are very near Thomas' due date) that shake me up. Sometimes I feel weird for talking about it easily (to certain people, I can't talk about it with everyone).

I'm glad you were able to spend time with your baby. They sound like very precious days. I only wish I had spent more time with my son, but I guess we aren't always in the right frame of mind at the time.

so sorry you had to go through this loss.