Oh Hun. I'm so sorry. I've been there - sitting in the ED, waiting, heart breaking... The ED at my hosp shares it's waiting room with birth suites (or something) so I was surrounded by large bellies and smiling faces while I sat and cried and DH rubbed my back.

I too had an incredibly insensitive medical professional (mine was the sonographer) and I just cannot believe that these people are doing what they do. Where is the compassion? The gentleness? The acknowledgement of what you are going through?

I also had to tell my DD that the baby had died. She didn't quite get it, or so I thought.. Weeks later, she said at random that mummy was sad and asked me if it was because the baby in my tummy had died

Reduced me to tears all over again. I still get teary about it now.

I feel your pain. Literally. That horrible feeling inside. The sucky fact is there are so many of us who have experienced this... We are all here to hold your hand as you walk this terrible road. You're not alone.

I'm so sorry your lovely Jorja couldn't stay with you and your boys.