Losing something you can never replace

[BlackRose]

I am so sorry for your loss especially when you wrote about how you broke the news to your eldest son.

You were treated appallingly by that doctor. His bedside manner was atrocious! Go back to your GP and discuss the pros and cons of both miscarrying naturally and By D&C. Sending you healing and strength I help you through this difficult time xxx

[Jaycee]

I am so very sorry for your loss, the world just isn't fair sometimes. It broke my heart to read the impact it's had on your son, it must be gut wrenching for you

Be kind to yourself, none of this is your fault. You need to keep telling yourself that

[diannescruffy]

So very sorry for your loss, sending you love and strength.

Regards,
Dianne

[STARRYSKY]

I am so sorry for your loss

I've had a missed miscarriage myself, baby died at 5 weeks but we didnt find out until almost 10 weeks, at my first US. I also spent hours in the ER waiting to see a doc, but I was told to come back the next day for a d&c . I'm truly sorry that knob of a doc treated you so unkindly.
I hope your appointment today can give you some answers on what will happen next.
Thinking of you xx

please dont blame yourself, give yourself the time and allow yourself to grieve, you are right, losing a baby is something that can never be replaced. Biggest of hugs xx

[RhiChiChi]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your baby and appauled at the treatment you received by that Dr. I would go back to your referring GP for another scan & bloods to see what is happening.

[Aussiegirl777]

I'm so very sorry to read this. Take care xoxoxo

[AlligatorsMum]

im very sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you truely know that nothing you thought or did made this happen. Im sorry you had to explain such a difficult thing to your son. Its hard for us to explain to ourselves let alone a child.

Im also sorry the Dr you saw was not more understanding. When i had my missed m/c i had a D&C the next morning. I had no pain, no bleeding at all. I dont understand why some recommend "Waiting and Seeing". I found it much "easier" to have the D&C and I really beleive it would have been much harder to deal with to go through a natural m/c if i had been made to wait for nature to take its course.

i hope you get the help and treatment you want and go on to have a happy and healthy pregnancy when the time comes.