Blayne welcome to BB hun. That's so sad to hear of your little one's passing.
I never thought I'd be able to answer a post like that with empathy or understanding, but today I totally understand.
We found out yesterday and my DH just doesn't understand that I need some time on my own to deal with this. We too had been trying for over 12 months, and while it wasn't my first it was desperatley wanted.
Many hugs and support.