Sorry about all your losses. I've been through 1 miscarriage and decided to have a D&C. It was very traumatic and i can sympathise with your feelings.
You know that you can fall pregnant and carry the baby to full term as you have a beautiful DD. I know a few ladies here on BB can't carry boy babies and that may be your case too.
I too, believe that you should wait for the test results before TTC, as the results may give you some much needed answers to your questions.
Goodluck and i know you will fall pregnant with beautiful baby sometime real soon.
Josijo,
m/c is devastating especially if you have had several. I have had three and been asking questions and searching for reasons for a long time. I have had 2 d&c's and then waited for chromosomal tests to come back. The wait seems like forever because like you we were eager to start TTC again. It can be hard not knowing what is going on and I am sick of hearing that it was just one of those things.(by ob.)
I deceided to keep trying and have faith that one day it will all work out. People are faced with many hardships and decisions and you just have to do what is right for you at the time.
I am so sorry for your losses and wish you all the luck for the future.
Laluna
Hi josijo,
I am so sorry for your losses hun, it is so heartbreaking I'm sure. I've had one late m/c last year and can't imagine ever having to go through it again (early or late).
All I can tell you is that don't ever give up the hope as I'm sure you'll get your second earth baby soon. Look into all the possible 'scenarios' of why the bubs didn't stick. It must be so heart breaking to be told, 'it was just one of these things'. I wish you much success in future hun, and I'm sending you lots of strength and hope to get you through this difficult time.
B xxx
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