Hi danielle,

Firstly I want to say i am so sorry for your loss. I understand the dark, horrible, sad place that you are at right now and its just not fair.

I went through a really hard phase with each of my mc's and I found that counselling really really helped me after the second one.

It doesnt matter if you were "only" 9 weeks pregnant, to you that was a perfect little baby growing inside and to have that taken away from you is so hard to deal with.

Over time you will grow stronger - make sure you give your heart emough time to heal, it takes a while to feel "fine" again.