Dear PennyS

I am so sad to hear of your loss, I have been there done that (got the T-shirt), but had no-one to talk to you really understood. People said to me all sorts of unhelpful cliche type things - but had no idea my baby was an IVF - not to take away from a MC from a naturally concieved pregnacy, but with this method everything is so precise, the Dr knows how thick your uterous is, what day to implant the egg etc - but when the MC occurs they shrug and say "i don't know". It's so frustrating!!
BTW - our little princess had chromosomal tests done and there was nothing wrong with her- which made the loss even harder to deal with as I really wanted something solid t pin my misery on, instead I flounded around thinking I was being punished, or it was my fault - an unhealthy trait I lean towards (a whole 'nother story). Also my FS thought it would be best to be PG again by the time the babys due date was - a stupid, stupid move, as I spent the whole PG worrying.

Anyway - sorry to blab - but I really can empathise with you, and I know how hard it is to come to grips with a MC - especially one thats IVF. Please take care of your self, grieve, cry, rage or do whatever you need to to acknowledge your pain, there are no prizes for being stoic or ignoring it!
I wish you well for the future. Oie