Thank you to everyone who responded to me! I am really happy to find this site... it is relieving to know that there are other people experiencing what I am experiencing at the same time. Right now has probably have been one of the hardest times of my life and I am going to need all of the support I can get. So thank you for being so generous and responding; also thank you for all of the responses and advice. I am going to need a lot right now. I am trying to understand that men and women are different to how they react to things emotionally... it's just very hard. I myself have never really been an emotional person. I have always considered myself to have emotions actually like a man. In fact my boyfriend used to cry more than I did. So now it is just crazy how I can cry over nothing out of nowhere and he is just dealing with it by watching football or going to the gym. But I am trying to accept him for him.

So I have some new questions? I don't know if anyone can answer them...

1. After having a D&C how long is it until you can actually get pregnant? Do you have to get your period first? Can you get pregnant w/out having your period 1st?

2. Why do they say no sex for 2 weeks after your D&C? I am not in pain right now... there is no soreness or anything... so is it okay? And I know they say your not supposed to but I did slip up. There is no pain so I just thought it would be okay!

P.S. I am sorry to all of the other people who are also going through what I am... I don't wish this pain on anyone! The positive thing though is at least we can concieve! We may have to grieve and lose our precious angels but one day one of those babies is going to make it and come into our life and change everything!
Anyways everyone have a beautiful day! xoxo and THANKS AGAIN!