Missed M/C at 12 weeks.

[dusty]

OMG J, I am so so sorry. I can't imagine how you must be feeling. I want to send you a big bear hug and wrap you up in cotton wool. Sending my love to DH as well. I am thinking of you both at this really sad time.

[boomba]

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love in this dificult time
x

[Nicambhar]

Oh my goodness, no. I am so very sorry Charlie. Take good care of you and I will be thinking of you. xx

[chris]

Chalalan
I am so sorry to hear your news.
Be kind to your self and take time to grieve.
this is one of the worst things a women can endure.
Take care
Chris

[ll80]

Big Hugs to you, my experience was similar, it's such a dreadful thing to endure.
Be especially kind to yourself, good luck with your d&c, my thoughts are with you.

..Laura

[Rumpleteaser]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Take it easy and take care.

[mummytotwo]

I'm very sorry to hear your news! Although your a realist the pain with still be a lot for you to bear so I am thinking of you. The same thing happened to me at my 12 wk u/s - the baby had past just a few days earlier - it is a horrible shock. I have just had a beautiful baby daughter though so pls take heart & I hope when you are ready you are blessed again. Hugs.

[tempus moriendi]

Even realists need emotional support. I'm so sorry for your loss and if you need a place to talk about what you're going through, this is it. I'll keep you in my prayers.

[cheekyfrog]

Oh no, Chalalan! I'm so terribly sorry that you've lost your bub. I hope that you are surrounded by lots and lots of love and support. Thinking of you and sending huge hugs

[SamiH]

So sorry to hear your news. It will probably take a while to move forward.

I had a similar experience last year in Oct - had no idea, thought everything was giong ok and at my 12.5 wk scan - missed m/c.

I gained strength from lurking in these forums before I felt time to share - I hope you feel the genuine support and understanding that is here.

Take Care
Sam

[Chalalan]

You all are really wonderful and I appreciate each and every response.

Wednesday was pretty traumatic but we got through it. DH & I got to the hospital at 7.40am and I got admitted at 11am. I didn't get into surgery until 8pm as there were lots of emergency ceasars and ectopics during the day. I was really tired and in a lot of pain but the time 8 pm rolled around but I am so grateful to the nursing staff. They were just the best! and kept DH and I calm and cared for. We really appreciate the nurses at KEMH in Perth - Thankyou!

DH and I have luckily been able to have the last couple of days together and have been talking and laughing and crying and sharing our grief and disappointment. My sister sent me flowers and mum sent me a lovely card with lots of words of wisdom. I feel very loved and have lots of support, and I will be leaning on the BB community when I feel ready to get back on the horse and ttc again....

Thanks & love, Charlie

[Nicambhar]

Great to see your post Charlie. I have been thinking about you and hoping that you are ok. What a great support network you have in your family. Take care, we are all here anytime. xx

[dusty]

sending you warm hugs charlie. lean on us all you like. we are here for you. xx

[tiggerlinda]

I am so sorry for you loss I admire your realist approach to here for you if you need me

[tempus moriendi]

Best wishes for a speedy recovery. I'm sure you're helped very much by your supportive husband. he sounds like one of the good ones.
Keeping you in my prayers.

[tina_k]

chalalan,
im so sorry for your loss. I had a MC 3 months ago, found out at the first US too. It was devastating. I just want to say, take your time to greive. dont let anyone tell you how to do it or when you should be feling better. you will have good and bad dadys for a long time, and thats ok.
thinking of you, look after yourself

[treelo]

oh hun this is terrible news. Please look after yourself, and give yourself some time grieve your precious angel.

hugs
treelo