Missed M/C at 12 weeks.

[ll80]

Big Hugs to you, my experience was similar, it's such a dreadful thing to endure.
Be especially kind to yourself, good luck with your d&c, my thoughts are with you.

..Laura

[mummytotwo]

I'm very sorry to hear your news! Although your a realist the pain with still be a lot for you to bear so I am thinking of you. The same thing happened to me at my 12 wk u/s - the baby had past just a few days earlier - it is a horrible shock. I have just had a beautiful baby daughter though so pls take heart & I hope when you are ready you are blessed again. Hugs.

[tempus moriendi]

Even realists need emotional support. I'm so sorry for your loss and if you need a place to talk about what you're going through, this is it. I'll keep you in my prayers.

[cheekyfrog]

Oh no, Chalalan! I'm so terribly sorry that you've lost your bub. I hope that you are surrounded by lots and lots of love and support. Thinking of you and sending huge hugs

[SamiH]

So sorry to hear your news. It will probably take a while to move forward.

I had a similar experience last year in Oct - had no idea, thought everything was giong ok and at my 12.5 wk scan - missed m/c.

I gained strength from lurking in these forums before I felt time to share - I hope you feel the genuine support and understanding that is here.

Take Care
Sam

[Chalalan]

You all are really wonderful and I appreciate each and every response.

Wednesday was pretty traumatic but we got through it. DH & I got to the hospital at 7.40am and I got admitted at 11am. I didn't get into surgery until 8pm as there were lots of emergency ceasars and ectopics during the day. I was really tired and in a lot of pain but the time 8 pm rolled around but I am so grateful to the nursing staff. They were just the best! and kept DH and I calm and cared for. We really appreciate the nurses at KEMH in Perth - Thankyou!

DH and I have luckily been able to have the last couple of days together and have been talking and laughing and crying and sharing our grief and disappointment. My sister sent me flowers and mum sent me a lovely card with lots of words of wisdom. I feel very loved and have lots of support, and I will be leaning on the BB community when I feel ready to get back on the horse and ttc again....

Thanks & love, Charlie

[Nicambhar]

Great to see your post Charlie. I have been thinking about you and hoping that you are ok. What a great support network you have in your family. Take care, we are all here anytime. xx

[dusty]

sending you warm hugs charlie. lean on us all you like. we are here for you. xx

[tiggerlinda]

I am so sorry for you loss I admire your realist approach to here for you if you need me

[tempus moriendi]

Best wishes for a speedy recovery. I'm sure you're helped very much by your supportive husband. he sounds like one of the good ones.
Keeping you in my prayers.

[Rumpleteaser]

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Take it easy and take care.

[tina_k]

chalalan,
im so sorry for your loss. I had a MC 3 months ago, found out at the first US too. It was devastating. I just want to say, take your time to greive. dont let anyone tell you how to do it or when you should be feling better. you will have good and bad dadys for a long time, and thats ok.
thinking of you, look after yourself

[treelo]

oh hun this is terrible news. Please look after yourself, and give yourself some time grieve your precious angel.

hugs
treelo

[ovemailqueen]

Went to the doctor Wednesday because I was Spotting and Cramping and I was 11 weeks along.
Didnt hear the Heart so an Ultasound was done. Saw something, but couldn't make it out.
Went back the next day(Thursday) and an Internal Ultrasound was done.
Nothing was seen. My Levels were at a 5 and should've been at 18.
I was told that something happened arounnd the 6th to 8th week and the baby just desinigrated. The Doctor isn't sure what happened.
Went straight the the Hospital and had a D&C done.
Feelin alittle better today (Saturday) but still very upset and cry all the time.
I already have a 14 year old Daughter, but I really wanted this baby.
Does the Sorrow ever go away?
Thanks for listening!

[tina_k]

ovemailqueen: well, not sure of the sorrow ever goes away, mine certainly hasnt, howver i can say that it does get easier..take as much time as you need to grieve

[jen805]

Hey Chalalan-- I'm new to this site, but I read your message and just wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss. I know a little of what you're going through. I went to the Dr. on March 3 for an ultrasound, and they told me I was going to miscarry. I was supposed to be 13 weeks, but they told me the baby had stopped developing at 8 weeks. Had my m/c on the 5th--the day before my b-day. There's no words of comfort that I can give you that will make you feel better, but it has helped me tremendously to read other stories of women going through and feeling the same things that I'm feeling right now. I pray that when you decide to TTC you will be blessed with a speedy miracle! Hope you feel better soon.