We found out the sex of our little one by the pathologist. The doctors and nurses were not prepared to tell us our babys sex until it had been confirmed. I would voice your concerns with the counsellor and request that your baby be identified before you collect him or her, I think it may be a small insision not too sure but we had a 100% guarantee of what DD was within the hr.

I also know what it is like to be sure your baby is one sex and then find out you were wrong somehow it feels like you never knew your baby and everything you felt was a lie.

I'm sending you hugs and hope that you can have the service for your little one that you and DH finds fitting to this little life that may of been here ever so shortly but in your heart forever.