thank you to everyone you have no idea how much it means to me.
this is my 3rd loss. all first trimester. is it still posible to fall pregnant and keep my baby im worryied that when we try again the same thing will happen and personaly i dont no if i could take it again. i reckon you become a mother the minute you become pregnant. the thought of life forming in your womb is soo joyful. i dont want to fall pregnant again as i feel that im putting my baby's life in danger buy creating him/her.
i dont want them to suffer i feel as thought they do. with this last pregnancy before we started trying i went for blood tests and all that to see if i was in the all clear. nothing abnormal showed up. im young,fit and healthy. im not over weight, i quite smoking. i dont drink. i was taking folic acid tables for 3 months before trying and during. i ate healthy, excersied in the pool so i didnt raise my temp. and it still my baby died. after i gets test's done in two weeks again i will let you no how it goes but ive had them and nothing was abnormal. so what could be causeing this. everytime we tryed i fell pregnant with in two weeks. i just dont no what im doing wrong.

i was also wondering how long should you wait after a curette to try again. just so i no this was my first one. the others i just let come out naturaly but with this one my body thought bub was still alive so i had to make the choice of a curette