Hi Horsemad,
I have just come accross your thread and had a read through. I am very sorry you have suffered another very sad loss. I too suffered a missed m/c this past January and also had a curette.
I am glad you have spoken to your hubby about this as now you can understand that he is hurting too and work through this together. My Dr told me that is is ok to try to concieve when ever I feel like it, but I think in your case I would wait until you get the tests done so hopefully, you dont have to suffer any more losses.
I am happy you found BellyBelly and know you will get all the support you need.

Good Luck and Take Care.