Hi everyone

I'm brand new to this site, I'd had heard about it through some friends but I didn't think I'd be here for a long time yet. I really don't know if this is the right place to be posting this but here goes.

I started seeing my boyfriend 5 weeks ago and a week ago I discovered that I was pregnant. Roughly about 3 weeks. Told the boy and he's been absolutely amazing and supportive but through discussion etc we decided that as much as we want to be together and babies are definitely something we both want for us it just wasn't right right now.

Yesterday however I started to spot and by last night was bleeding quite heavily and a doctor confirmed that I have miscarried. I'm so confused. I can't stop crying. But I feel like I have no right to be sad or to cry because of what my partner and I had decided. When I rang my doctor when I initially started bleeding, she said to me "well you're going ahead with the procedure so it doesn't really matter does it - just see what happens over the next few days and call me if you experience severe pain".

I'm sorry if my post has upset anyone or if I've posted in the wrong area but I'm just so confused. I'm so devastated that I've lost my baby but I feel like I can't be.