Mako - good to hear from you. Can you get DH to agree to listen, genuinely listen to the Obstetrician and then you can both talk about it? At least that way, there is an informed decision being made, rather than one made from fear and hurt.

I understand where you are both coming from, but hopefully there is a way through that you can both accept. Differences of opinion about TCC are potentially, another loss, for each of you, and in some ways, are more scary than the angel losses. I managed to get my DH to agree to tcc after our most recent loss, but not sure if he will agree to more tcc if there is another loss, pretty much for the same reasons your DH says.

Make time for yourself to express your feelings. It's important.

I had a a few hit and misses with counsellors until I found one who is just pure gold. I had never been to one before and was very skeptical, but my pure gold counsellor, showed me, it can work.

Do whatever you feel you need to do to get through, but do take action if you start to get worried about yourself. Go gently.