OK Universe, it's not funny anymore.....

[Porsche]

Alison - Sending many your way. My FS was a bit matter of fact as well but I think because I already knew and I told him I already knew that it wasn't so harsh for me to hear it out loud. I thiknk you are right when you say they become complacent. They must see so many things like this that they just get used to it. Doesn't make it ny easier for you the patient who this is all happening to though.

I couldn't have waited to MC naturally. I'm one to get things over and done with as quickly as possible. I wouldn't have been able to stand waiting to MC. It would just be killing me and keeping me on edge waiting for it to start and not wanting to go any where for fear of it happeneing in public or work or something. So I chose D&C's after both my diagnosis's.

[Alison1973]

Thanks Porsche, you and are I are very similar, even now I'm sitting here wishing I could get it over with now, I hate waiting for the inevitable to happen. Plus having a miscarriage is not nice to experience, I'm sure a D&C isn't nice either but to me it's the lesser of 2 evils. My OB is also the FS so I'm lucky in that retrospect, she's so lovely. Can I ask did you still have any sensations before having the miscarriage? I'm still having pressure and the little twinges like things are stretching, not sure if it's miscarriage coming or not. I'm absolutely paranoid to have a natural miscarriage before I see her on Friday, I'm still on the progesterone so hoping that keeps it at bay but have no idea, this is only my 2nd cycle on the progesterone.

I hope you can find the strength to move on as well and wishing us both lots of sticky vibes for the near future, we deserve it after all. xx