Alison - Sending many your way. My FS was a bit matter of fact as well but I think because I already knew and I told him I already knew that it wasn't so harsh for me to hear it out loud. I thiknk you are right when you say they become complacent. They must see so many things like this that they just get used to it. Doesn't make it ny easier for you the patient who this is all happening to though.

I couldn't have waited to MC naturally. I'm one to get things over and done with as quickly as possible. I wouldn't have been able to stand waiting to MC. It would just be killing me and keeping me on edge waiting for it to start and not wanting to go any where for fear of it happeneing in public or work or something. So I chose D&C's after both my diagnosis's.