Thank you for your kind words Daytona, The first step for me was talking about it as with exams i havent had time to grieve properly and i think it has probably gotten to much, your words were very kind and sincere, i also like to thank you or the suggestion of the candles i think that would help the whole family through this, we are going to see my nieces grave on sunday and lay some flowers and a teddy bear and also whilst there we will be visiting Neo as he was buried on top of her.


Yet again thank you for you kind words and i hope your pregnancy goes well.