Phoenix Star 02/11/2011 - 18 weeks gestation

[forshelby]

Oh. what a traumatic way for it all to unfold. Please don't feel ashamed. Deepest sympathies for the loss of your precious Phoenix. May he rise from the ashes, as his name suggests.

[kristi14]

Im so very sorry for your loss, what a time you have been through.

Be gentle with yourself during this time and allow yourself to feel all the emotions you feel xxx

[LizLemon]

I am so so sorry for the loss of Phoenix. I wish there was something I could think of to say that would magically take away the pain, but I hope that knowing that people care helps. Be gentle with yourself

[feeb]

So sorry your Phoenix Star could not stay. Hugs to you at this difficult time xoxo

[Early Kids]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss x

[Lulliloo]

[*EJ*]

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little boy. My heart is breaking for you and your DH

[BlackRose]

What a heartbreaking story. I am so so sorry for your loss.

[EsJay]

I am so sorry for your loss, be kind to yourself.
i hope you are able to get answers.

[Babyluv]

I'm so so sorry to hear your precious boy couldn't stay. Please don't feel any shame. My thoughts are with you and your partner xx

[RubyLotus]

thanks for all of your kind words of support. It is so nice to come on here and see that people truly care and understand

I just came from my GP who informed me that he had spoken with the obstetrician who treated me and she has decided that the cause of our loss was an incompetent cervix. Dont know how i feel, kind of annoyed that she couldnt tell me that herself when i was there, but my GP says there was a lot of things to factor in before coming to that conclusion.......GP has also advised us to wait for test results from bubs just in case of other issues, but is fairly confident bubs was fine.......Frustrating Much!!!!!!!

Wish there was something i could of done or known about earlier, that could of prevented this from happening.......

Devastated

[RhiChiChi]

I'm so terribly sorry that your little man couldn't stay earthside. Fly free little Phoenix

[delphmoon]

I'm soo sorry

I never have the right words to say with things like this but....sending you strength and healing during this devastating and heartbreaking time luv

Thinking of you xx

[Butterfly Dawn]

Im so sorry hun.
Love and strength to you and your man

[Miss.B]

I'm so sorry that your little man had to leave this earth. May he always watch over mummy and daddy forever

[beckoes]

im so sorry you had to say good bye to your beautiful boy. hugs

[ButterflyForever]

Thinking of you and your precious boy, Phoenix Star.
Many of us have walked and still walk the long and difficult road of loss, we understand where you are right now, as Skybie said, just reach out if you ever need us,
Take care,

[dory]

Hugs sweetie, you have given your Phoenix star a beautiful gift, you brought him into this world, and you will love him ever more. Go gently as you start to heal. You will find a way through.