So sorry for your loss we are all on here for the same reason I am 44 and lost my baby 3 wks ago similar to you but was 12 wks and started spotting went for ultrasound and no heart beat so I went in for a D&C that day it wasn't too bad just a general anasethtic then when you come around you realize your bub is really gone and its heart wrenching but we have to pick ourselves up and try to make the best of it. I had really bad tearful days the first 2 wks and its gradually got easier mainly I think because since the bleeding stopped I am going all out to get pregnant again. My GP said I was fine to try after a normal AF but I coudn't even wait for that. The D & C was ok a lot of pain afterwards for about 48hrs then bleeding not too heavy for 4 days and that was it.
So you find yourself here with all of us in a similar position and we all keep each other going and give each other hope and one day soon we will all get a BFP and life will be good again we never forget the angels we lost we just learn to go on with life the best we can.
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