Hi Starrysky

Sorry to hear about your brothers GF especially so soon after yours it must be so upsetting for your family right now. was it your first day back? i had 8 weeks of work altogether and going back was so hard as everyone new i was pregnant before as i had a biggish bump well i was 20 wks pregnant so coming back was hard i was scared if people were gonna ask question or say something like oh you have had the baby then but they didnt there was just one lady on reception who said arnt you due soon when is it and then i said no i lost her at 23wks i think she felt worse than me but it is still very early days for you and you will find things will upset you i still get upset now. As to your DP how insensitive sounds just like my DH let me just say that it was a person and it was still this little baby that had grown however long in your tummy you still had a connection it doesnt matter how far along you were it was a baby and he should see it as a baby you still had all the hopes and dreams for your family with your bub so ignore any comments like that sending big to you take care of yourself.

Munchy xxx