Hi Dianne,
I was 11 weeks but the US showed that the baby stopped developing at 8 weeks. My other loss was not spontaneous and I wanted to let my body pass the baby on its own but it never happened I had to have a D&C so with the third MC my Dr recommended that we schedule one and my insurance covered testing the tissues to see what was wrong. It is strange because I used to talk to the baby every morning and every night before bed. A couple of weeks before I stopped feeling connected to the baby, I really felt something was wrong but I was trying to stay positive until my next US. Recently I have decided to start a weight loss program and see a specialist to find out what they recommend my next step be. I don't think that my weight is a cause but I do think that if I am more fit I will have a healthier delivery that requires less intervention. I don't want to end up with gestational diabetes or hypertension.
-Adrienne