Never ceases to amaze me how blunt some health care workers can be. We look to them for reassurance and they make us feel horrible and we walk out appointments feeling empty with more questions than when we walked in.

I think you have the right to see your normal GP and would make an appointment to see him. He'd probably suggest a blood test to see what your HCG levels are.

The clot thing doesn't sound good - that is what I was passing all day yesterday with my m/c. But, everyone is different, so you really do need to get a second opinion. Not that this other bloke's thing was an opinion, just sounds like he was trying to get you out of his office.