When do you get over your loss?

[satya]

I'm sorry for your loss. Nothing you did caused your loss.

Your grief will come and go. Expect a difficult time around the time your baby was due to be born, we all find that one difficult. Getting pregnant again can ease the pain, but if you suffer another loss it makes it very difficult indeed (been there, done that, got the tshirt to prove it). Take as long as you need to grieve but you will eventually feel better.

[jo76]

please please please do not look at any "past life experience" as a reason to find blame in yourself and at the risk of offending you i am insulted that someone who should care about you is being so cruel and heartless. i have suffered a loss also and although it is still new to me and i am working through my own grief, i am finding it does come in waves and it is hard to predict how, when and what may affect me to bring back feelings that i think any of us who have experienced it can describe. I am learning it is very unpredictable and people won't always understand. i am looking into some counselling and i hope that you can too as i really think it would help you sort through and deal with your feelings esp as you are not eating etc.
Surround yourself with people who are positive energy for you if you can and i am honestly going to be thinking of you. Please take care, it may be a long battle but it is the way we are able to deal with it in the meantime that will help get us through each day. sending loads of hugs your way....:hugs: