I misscarried on the 22 June last year and I have never ever experienced a dark place like that before and I pray I never have to again. Even though I did get pregnant again before my next af it did help that I didn't have to go through an af but it also prevented me from facing my real grief of losing our little bubba. I still think of our angel bubba regularly and now for me it is just a deep sorrow and regret.

The thing that has helped me has be two things.
The 1st is that I believe that when I get to heaven my angel bubba will be the first to greet me and the day I will know what heaven is really all about
The 2nd is that I heard a lady talk about her miscarriage in a book my bestie gave me and it was saying that her opinion the reason why God 'allows' them is so that the angel bubba spirit could be created and we should be honoured that we were given this oppounity to carry for even a short time this spirit, and our bubba spirit is sitting with God.

I don't think you can ever 'get over' the loss of anyone you just learn to live with it and how is changes you