LOL... I'm only organized because we have been trying for 12 years to have a family.

The nursery was started about 8 years ago and we would do a little bit and then stop for a while when things went backwards rather than forwards.

Then with the baby clothes we started to get some girls stuff when we started ICA, because adopting from China there was a higher chance we would get a daughter between 9 months and 2 years old, but we did get a couple of boys things just in case

But I had also been collecting things since I was 15 years old and coming from a big family - 3 older sisters, 2 older brothers and 2 younger sisters - plus my husband sister and brother, means we have so many nieces and nephews, ranging in age from 20 years down to a nephew being due this month and another baby due in October this year. So I've had so much practise with babies and what they need that I'm probably to well organized for my own good Yet I'll probably freak out completely when we actually have a baby of our own and will forget everything I think I know.

I'm so looking forward to it Even though I am still scared that nothing is going to work out and we wont get approved, but I'm working on being more positive I think its working a bit.