This is something i have thought about with my cousin going through so much to have a child with his wife.
I would like to think that i could, that i would be strong enough to realise that it's NOT my baby and that i would be giving them the greatest gift in life.

I think i could separate those feelings for myself and i know i am not planning on having any more kids of my own but i think it would be hard on my girls.
Seeing me PG and knowing there is a baby in there but not being able to take it home for them to play with.
My cousin lives a fair way away, i think that would make things easier as you wouldn't always be seeing the bub and thinking WHAT IF.

Honestly i'm not sure anyone can ever say they are 100% prepared for the emotions that would be involved in this choice, i would like to think i could do it... but i just wouldn't know