Carmen,

I have thought about foster care, but do not think i could handle looking after and loving a child and then have them taken away again. Is long term care exactly that - long term until the age of 18 under your care? I would love to help a child and share our lives but i the thought of a child being taken away and being sent back to who know what scares us. Its just a thought going through our minds at the moment should IVF not work out.
You seem to know alittle about it.