1) What do your PC children call you? I have heard that some people are advised the children cannot call you Mum and Dad even if you have had them since they were babies?!
In Victoria I don't think there any restrictions on what the children can call you. I have heard in other states there can be.


2) How oftern do your PC children see their birth parents?

Depends on the situation, all are different, there is not set amount. When you are going through the assessment process you will be asked how you feel about this and how often you are comfortable with contact.

Feel free to ask any questions, I will answer them as best I can related to my expereince.