Got a call from docs today they are sending me all the paperwork to fill out for application. Gosh this process takes a long time. Fionas thanks for the idea on ringing her I gave it a try and left her a msg saying I love her and will try my hardest to get her kids and love and look after them like my own until she is back on her feet.
Was not met warmly but hey what can you expect

Will let you know how crazy the paperwork is when i finally get my hands on it!!!!!!!!!!!!