Love! deffering isn't giving up or failing. I deferred my degree for almost 4 years, but i went back and completed it. There is no time limit. Don't be so hard on yourself.

Keep up a subject if you want, but i wouldn't be putting any pressure on yourself to do so. The subjects will always be there. No big deal when you complete them.

I deffered about 3 weeks before exams. I had to repeat the subjects i was half way through, but that was no big deal. You can defer anytime, you may just have to start a subject over.......

Pregnancy is exhausting, especially with a toddler. You should still be proud and excited you got in. Your place will be waiting for you until you are ready, so i say take those undies from the outside of your pants and give yourself a break!