Oh FJ (sorry old habits). I'm sorry to hear it, but yeah... not too surprised? Things you posted in the past were like reading posts about M... Sorry I missed your post earlier.

Well... I'm amazed that we are still in a good patch. On Sunday, Matilda and J played in their room for 2 hours together. M instigated it, and they weren't doing parallel play, they were playing together! DH & I were in tears yet again about the amazing growth we are seeing. I just resigned myself I think, to the fact that she may not get any "better"? I've not looked for a cure for her, but for a way to make her life easier... She's just not as stressed.