What a truely wonderful friend you are Donna. Its so heart warming to know that a mum who is going through this has such a wonderful support and friend.

Denial is easier sometimes then dealing with what is right infront of their nose, and blame often follows suit . Friends who dont understand that your life must revolve around this little person or have an unwillingness to 'put up' you or you child turn and walk away 9 time out of ten. Its extremely heart warming to know that your friend has you to turn to when she needs it.

I hope that your friend is aware of what is available to her in regards to career payments and respite also. Although most of us mum'/s with childrne with special needs are very proud to say we can do it on our own, we do need a break of some sort and if there isnt a significant other there to help...respite can do wonders.

your put a huge smile on my dial