It is hard to hear that there is something wrong with your bubba and so early in your pregnancy. All I can suggest is to get a second opinion. I know from personal experience that they can get it so wrong. It was strongly recommended to me from many 'specialists' to abort my DD, I went against all they said as I felt ready to bring up a special needs baby. When she was born after an Amnio and fortnightly scans throughout my pregnancy and constantly being told of problems with my baby I delivered a little girl that yes had problems however none of the problems that they detected, the problems she had were not picked up on any ultrasound or test. Yes she is classified as special needs however it is only because of feeding issues not because of physical, intellectual and mental abnormalities that they suggested.

I wish you the best of luck with your next ultrasound, babies can change so much in such a short space of time, I hope that everything works out for the best and just know that there is so much support out there if your bubba does have special needs and they can do so much to help these babies lead normal lives. When a Dr says your baby will never do this... I make it my mission to prove them wrong, and I haven't failed yet.

Although my DD case is different to yours feel free to PM me any time if you need to talk/vent.

Deanne.